I can see where someone might get the idea that "online friends aren't real", but it's probably due to the fact that they can't understand online relationships or don't accept them. And dude, they are missing out.
It's true there are things that online friends can't do, but then again, some friends are able to do things (in general) and some aren't, whether online or offline. Some friends share many interests with you, while others are friends due to circumstance; some friends connect well with you, while others often need a joint effort with you in order to get by. There are all sorts of friendships, but in the end, what's important is that you guys are the ones who decide on your relationship. What business is it for other people to determine that sort of thing for you two?
I have many types of friends: friends I am fond of, friends who are close to me, friends I grew up with, friends who I'm willing to be there for even when it's hard. I also have a lot of casual friends, ofc.
When it comes to a "best friend", however, I only have one. Ocean is the dearest to my heart, and she's the one I sing praises about, online and offline. She's one of those people who I can look at and say, "Wow, I am so lucky to know her!" and "Dang, I can't believe she thinks I'm awesome because she's so amazing herself!" and there are so many instances where I'm endeared to her all over again because of her insight, and intelligence, and kindness, and patience, and humor, and talent.
I feel blessed to have Ocean in my life. She makes me so happy, and it's not even about her strengths and abilities and qualities all the time. So often, I'm made glad just by her presence, just by seeing that she's on when I'm on, and knowing that she's there for me.
She's a wonderful person all on her own, but knowing that she accepts me because of my flaws; that she's seen me at my best and worst; that she cares about me so sincerely --it just makes my little heart want to burst. I really am lucky to have her in my life.
I also have two good friends IRL: Clyne and Susan, who are both awesome in their own ways, and both are really caring. Clyne is so on top of everything, responsible, loyal, and practical. Susan is sweet, kind, and hardworking.
Online, I also really enjoy talking to my buddy Ris, who aside from being super chill and a fun buddy to hang out with, is also a great writer. She and I also share the same tastes in music and books, and it's fun to hang out with her.
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