Jumping in! Wee!

Sex does not effect your period length or regularity except in the case of possible pregnancy.

Sex can ease the symptoms of periods. It helps ease cramps and such when performed properly, but so does masturbation.

For some reasons lots of doctors wanna have penis be a cure all but it really really isn't. For instance, many doctors will insist that having children will stabilize periods. It will not. I don't know why so many gynecologists be lying, but golly they really do.

Sorry for busting in. Sexual education is one of my favorite subjects.

It's true about the cramps. But at least for me, when I have cramps I do not feel like having sex with another person at all. I would lack the enthusiasm ^^;
With myself, well, that's a completely different matter ^_-

I don't think I've received any sexual education in my day, but it is definitely an interesting topic to read about. Because there are just so many myths about it!

Lol yeah i think thats what my fam doc thought, that having s** would stabilize things. Well i’m not gonna do it just for the sake of that. 8u

Anyways…how was ya’ll halloween? Its been rainy and glooomy these past two days. 8u

It was nice.
We were at my parents house since Friday, cause we had these days off, so my son could play with the cousin.
The weather did not help much, most time spent indoors, but at least we did some pumpkin carving

Looks like the sun is out now. All the dreary skies was depressing. I feel more tired too. XD;;

I haven’t carved a pumpkin in years. My sister has been doing it the past few years tho.

Yeah a lot of people don't feel like having sex while on their periods, and that's totally valid.

I personally get stupid horny all around my period. lol. So I'm almost always raring to go. Unfortunately my spouse's sex drive is MUCH lower than mine, and I don't have any other partners currently. So alone fun time for just me. lol.


My Halloween wasn't great. It wasn't awful either. I always feel a little melancholy on it because my favorite time of the year is over that day. So sad. But spouse had to work and it was rainy. So I was all alone and hurty. lol.

Oh yeah. My mother dropped by with no warning so that sucked. We leave the big door open so the cat can look outside and she knocked on the door while we were watching people play scary games on YouTube. We both screamed. lol.


I haven't carved a pumpkin in yearsss. I miss it.

I also get a bit horny around my period, but the rest of my body says "no way!". Too tired, too bloated, too clumsy. I don't want any gymnastics those days xD

light, you've had other partners while married?
I'm the one with the low drive, and I've been thinking about bringing it up to my spouse, but I'm not sure he would be ok with it and I find the whole situation needs a lot of thinking and talking...



I had never carved a pumpkin until my son got into school.
It's never been a big thing here, it's just that it's been "imported" recently. As other cool traditions have been. Because if it is fun, why not do it?

We're polyamorous. We've both had sex one time so far with 'other' people. For me it was a one time thing because I wanted to try domming and pegging a guy but he had a lot of red flags so I only did it once. One of those subs that are like oh you can do whatever you want to me, blah, blah, blah. Not healthy at all. So I only did what we distinctly discussed and so it wasn't a very fulfilling time since I had to basically hardcore interview him to get any sense of what he wanted.

Spouse had fun having sex with the person he was with but she was very emotionally immature so it also only happened once.

It's really difficult to find nice people to connect with online. It doesn't help that we're not 'traditionally attractive'. Lots of people are very shallow.


Polamory is not for everyone. You should definitely do a lot of research before you think about doing it. Communication is THE most important part. You have to talk A LOT about it. Like a ton.

I think it's probably fine to ask about his opinion on it and then let him stew on it a while and then ask him again later.


I do love learning about other people's traditions! It's fun to incorporate them as long as you're respectful about it.

We've always been quite classic, I suppose.
I'm naturally monogamous. I've never felt attracted to two guys during the same period, it just does not happen to me. Only after I stop being attracted to one I can feel attraction for another one.
He's the monogamous type too, but in his case I think it's because he's got quite strict behaviours (he's got some typical autistic traits).
We are definetely not polyamorous at heart, and still... I don't know, it's all too complicated, and we do need to re-write our rules because our relationship is no longer the way it used to be, but I don't know how it's going to be from now on either.
So I'm considering all options.




Yeah, traditions are traditions and it's good keeping them, but even so there is so much to learn from other people's traditions.
We celebrate Samhain here, which in origin is the same as Halloween but the actual appearence of the celebration is completely different.
Lately we are adapting more and more Halloween stuff though. Because it's fun.

ive been raised pretty traditionally chinese so i would never think of being in another relationship if i were married. which i'm not. i've never even had a boyfriend before lol.

the skies cleared up today and it got warmer as well. maybe 15-17C? still, i've been wearing a warmer, practically my winter jacket lool. me, constantly overdressing.