memoriam wrote:Wow, deep feelings sounds pretty serious to me, and it progressed rather quickly, too!

I hope you'll be able to be happy together

How long have you two been sweet on one another anyways? XD
I never had any allergies as a child, so this hay fever is kind of new to me, as well as some of my food sensitivities. But I know some allergies can come later in life so I guess tjhat's my case.
Hmm, 7-8 years? But we didn't really have that phase of just dating but being on our own. We basically moved in together (to my granny's) sometime after highschool/in the beginning of university years (what makes about 3 years after getting together). His closest family moved to another city and he had no place to stay, so my grandma agreed for him to live with us. we've been living together ever since, either at my grandma's place, at his step-dad's, back with my grandma, and then the pandemic hit and we decided we won't be able to stay sane with my granny 24/7, so he rented a place.
I'm not sure why he needs to be completely alone but apparently I gave him the idea

I can't even remember, but it totally sounds like something I would say. He's been telling me more and more frequently that he's generally unhappy and would like some alone time. So I told him (more than once, according to him, lol) that maybe he needs to live on his own for some time. He often spoke about going off into the world just by himself, be completely independed etc., so I supposed that's the feeling he's missing. And so he took my advise (which I can't remember, but I'm okay with it

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I asked him how long he'd like to live that way and he said he didn't even think about it XD But I don't think it'll be that long, since after not seeing me for just 2 days he was all cuddly and said he really missed me. And I was like: "how will you even survive a month without me if we were apart for merely two days and now you can't stop hugging me? XD"
I am not worried he'll break up because he still talks about our future together and I trust him. Plus I see this as an opportunity to find myself as well, maybe I won't be as distracted without him around, who knows?
My mom will indeed be happy, especially we both want to work in the same branch (proofreading, editing) and she thinks I know more than she does because I started my course earlier and encouraged her to do the same XD
I'm low-key worried she'll be bothering me with questions but I'm probably worried for nothing. I got that after her
