I've never dated. XD I didn't even date the father of my daughter. Well I don't know if it was considered dating. lol

Oh really? I didn't know that you never dated. I just assumed that you dated him and were like, naaaah. Then there was baby.

Aw, that's so sad. Poor thing. She definitely needs therapy then. Losing someone that you love in combat is awful. I mean, losing someone you love in any fashion is awful, but I imagine it would be extra traumatic in combat.

Oh my god, what a tragedy... I can't even find words to describe how sorry I am about it..

Still, it's not good for the child that she calls all her Mum's dates 'Dad'.

That's truth.

Kids need some sort of stability.

Nope. We hung out. I guess that could count. lol

She does need therapy, but she won't listen and then it becomes a major argument and then we don't talk for days and right now she's recovering from giving birth and surgery, so I don't want to stress her out. But I still won't bring it up. She has to figure it out for herself.

She does need to stop letting it happen.

I think that a lot of people are just not good at making wise decisions.
Like you would think at some point that they would fall onto the correct path. But despite statistics, almost always bad decisions.

Yes. I was that way before my daughter, but now I'm getting better at making good decisions. I live with my parents so they help me make better decisions and are great moral support when my anti depressants can't help me.

That's good. I'm glad that having a kid helped you get better at decision making.

So often it doesn't help. Sometimes it actually makes it worse. It's awful.

It's good that they can actually help with your depression and such.

Yes. And I'll be the first to admit I'm not perfect like everyone else and still make them. However, I have to be more alert what I'm doing in front of my daughter so I can keep her safe. Though when she's at school, I can go a little stupid. XD

I know. When I lost medicaid for a while I was also out of anti-depressants and I was starting to think motherhood was a big mistake and I sat on the floor of the living room and I was angry as hell. My daughter at the time was two years old and she sat down next to me, crossed her arms and said: "It's my turn to be mad." It made me laugh. And I felt better.

Yes. When I'm having a bad day and my anti-antidepressants aren't working because of stress, they keep an eye on me so I don't do something real stupid like over dose on pills or something.

I wish everyone could have a good support group.

Of course. No one is perfect. We're all human. When baby is away mommy will play. lol.

Aw, that sucks. Stupid medicaid.

Motherhood is such a thankless job. I couldn't do it.
That sounds pretty cute.

It's good to have a support system. I'm glad that people are more open about mental illness and things like that.