Oh damn I am sorry for the child if she really cannot afford her children...

Nope. She comes to us for help. But she's also a bitch. Back when Alice (her oldest) was a baby, we'd give her shoes and clothes Joslyn grew out of, but Alice never wore any of them even when visiting us. We asked her about it and the excuse was always "Oh, Alice hid one (or both) shoes and I didn't know it until we were getting ready to come over." But sometimes when they came over Alice would have a cute outfit or shoes and she'd tell us it was from a friend and she paid twenty bucks or whatever for it. Mind you once my sister left, we'd be bitching about that. That was bull, just because the clothes we gave her were hand-me-downs we got from the thrift store, doesn't mean they were worthless. She tends to live outside her means and then comes to us for help. And what kills me, is once she's able to work, he doesn't want her to work he wants her to be an at home mom. Yet he doesn't make a lot of money. They bought a vehicle that needed fixed and didn't have the money to fix it for a couple of months. I think they are able to get it today, but I'm not sure.

That sounds super annoying for you, DC :(
Hope she gets her shit together somehow!

That sounds indeed like she does not appreciate the help she gets from you and lives outside her means... I really hope that one day she will realise what she has done to you.

Thanks guys. I hope one day she will pull her head out of her ass and realize things.

Would be best for her children at least.
What about the father?

Yes.

Well Tyler (father of the oldest) lives in Hawaii, tries to face chat with his daughter and she wants nothing to do with him. She doesn't even consider him her dad. I have no idea about the youngest daughter's father other than he might have raped my sister at a party while she was drunk. I really don't know because my sister doesn't want to talk about it, which I understand. And the father of the boy, whom my sister is having now, is in the picture, but who knows how long. She's dated like a dozen guys or more from high school and been engaged like four to six times. Sooo...I don't hold much for this guy.

Dating 12 guys ain't that bad. Though getting engaged and not actually getting married that many times isn't great. Sounds like she's really impulsive.

My husband got snipped snipped so we ain't gotta worry bout no babies. Yay!

I've lost count how many guys she's dated. There was some that only lasted a few days, weeks, or months, and only three that have lasted at least a year.

She doesn't think, she just breaks up and goes on to another guy. I think Alice has called at least three men Daddy since her father was never there. She just lets the kids call whomever she's dating Daddy. I'd tell the girls not to call everyone Mommy dates Daddy. It's not healthy. If this guy doesn't pan out that'll be the third one she's called Daddy. And you can't tell her anything because she won't listen or tells us it's her life. It's also my Nieces and now Nephew's lives.

Speaking of my nephew she gave birth to him on Monday and they're doing fine. His name is Lucien.

I've only dated a few people. My husband has only dated two. Our relationship is the longest that I've ever had.

Poor thing. She might need some therapy. And the kids too. Like she's just searching for a man's approval. Thinking that her only worth is through a man. My mom is a lot like that too.

Lucien is a super cool name.