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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Nov 26th, '17, 23:24    


Moi

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>XD
Damn Zia always trying to take money from people >8u
I remember that one person that lied and said I cussed out their brother and they told Firn and Firn had a good talking to me and that I'd never do it again.
I remember Firn being like "I didn't do that O.o"

Edit: Sorry. I've been royally pissed off lately xD;

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Nov 29th, '17, 05:59    


Sunlight

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Geeze, I'm so bad at checking for replies.

Oh god. They're still around. what dorp.

No worries. I'm not in my best mood these days, either.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Nov 29th, '17, 16:38    


Moi

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Want to talk about it 8u?

My family, mostly my mom, used to snap at me all the time.
And I HATED it. Now I'm doing it, and I can't seem to stop it.
I hate that I started doing it, when I know I hated people doing it to me.
It made me never want to ask questions because I thought people would snap at me xD

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Nov 30th, '17, 05:53    


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Just feeling stressed from the final week crunch and period pains and such. I went Christmas shopping but the bag they put my things in broke on my way home. I contacted the company and they were like, "Oh,
oops! Looks like you'll have to buy them again!" and it made me think, oh,
so you're taking this as an opportunity to make twice as much money from me,
eh? So I replied to them, "No, I don't think I 'have to' buy them again. I'll just find something else to use as a Christmas gift. And I don't think I'll ever shop at one of your stores again, either."


I can understand that. I don't ever want children because I don't want to do what my parents did to me but I don't know if I know enough about parenting to do anything better.

The game prize was taken down and replaced due to lack of interest.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 3rd, '17, 20:39    


Moi

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>XD
"You have 3 days to replace my items or I'll find you and shove every one of them up your ass. Sharpest first. >Bu"

I have been wanting to have a kid lately.
I've never even had my first kiss.
And I know I'd mess their life up.
It'd be cool to have a kid and spend time with them and raise them and bond with them.
But there's so many more cons to me.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 4th, '17, 02:33    


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Shit, that's a good one. lol They're on the other side of the country for me, though.

Well, you could always adopt. And for children like that, anything you can provide is probably better than what they might have ended up with. And I'm sure you'll do fine. You basically raised your sister, after all.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 6th, '17, 22:50    


Moi

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I would adopt. To be honest, sex and childbirth have always scared me xD
But I still don't want to take that risk.
My mom, dad and aunt have helped raised my sister.

Oi, a singer my sister and I like got accused of raping/molesting her best friend.
People immediately unsubbed and recorded themselves destroying the singer's merch.
I think that's incredibly STUPID since not much info is out yet.
I read the comments and both sides made good points.
The victim says she said no numerous times, but the singer said she never said no.
And at one point I think the victim said she didn't resist and didn't physically say no, so the singer should have know even if she didn't say no or resist.
And people were like "Just because no one says no and doesn't resist doesn't mean it's okay!"
But like...I'm stupid, I need people to blatantly say things or do things for me to understand.
So I can't read people's minds, and I feel like that could have happened???
I mean if you don't say no or resist - then how does one know you're not into it .__.??
"No. Stop. Don't." cry, try to get away, you know things that blatantly mean don't and stop.
I don't think she did anything.
And she said she was too scared to do anything and she still loves the singer and they're still friends.
The singer said they're not friends.
And it's a whole mess xD

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 6th, '17, 23:56    


Sunlight

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OMG me too. To make things worse, I have vaginismus so insertion of anything is painful, including tampons. I can't even imagine what it'd be like to have sex or childbirth. I guess I could be under anesthesia for childbirth but I don't think I could do that for sex and have it still be consensual.
:qlol:


I had a boyfriend who didn't take my no and held my hands down and just started touching me without my consent. After that, I gave up saying no because why bother if he's just going to overpower me and touch me anyway? I should have walked away but I was scared to because I didn't know where I was and I thought he'd not give me a ride back home if I didn't and we were in bear country. I should have dumped him then and there but I was young and dumb and had this delusional idea that I had to be with one person my whole life or I'd be a slut. I'm a firm believer that consent is "yes", not "no" or even "..." not saying "no" isn't necessarily a consent if the answer isn't "yes". If the person doesn't say "no" but doesn't say "yes" either, I think you should back off. My current boyfriend is very respectful in that regard and I find that very attractive. It's my first time I don't have to keep saying no and pushing them away. It's great.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 7th, '17, 02:12    


Moi

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I always said I wanted drugs if I ever gave birth.
Then people are like "Drugs are ad for your baby!"
SO IS THE MOTHER DYING UB<

I'm sorry that happened to you ;;
I posted the thing on my FB if you get the time to read what the victim said.

I really hope the singer didn't do anything.
She's a quirky person and I love her look and music.
It shocked me when I first saw it xD
And not a lot of things shock me >>

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Dec 7th, '17, 05:13    


Sunlight

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Exactly, right? I'm sure the doctors adjust the dosage for it to be safe for the baby, too.

I did. And I have to say, I can see from her point of view.
I got tired of saying no because I didn't see the point of it. It looks like she went through the same thing. Remember when someone accused you of stealing their Wild Knuffel idea for the Fire Knuffel design contest and you were like, "Fine,
believe what you want. You're not going to believe me anyway"? It's similar kind of feeling. Just stop resisting and stop saying no because it's not making a difference so why not get this over with quickly.


People say "no means no" but I think we should change it to "only yes means yes". Consent should be "yes". If they don't say "yes" then it should be understood as a "no" even if it's not explicitly given. You said that you need people to say things explicitly for you to understand. Isn't it safer to assume you don't have permission unless it's explicitly given than to assume you do have permission unless you're explicitly forbidden? If you want to touch them and they don't say "yes", I think it's safer to assume they don't want to be touched than to think that they do want to be touched. We shouldn't be asking whether the victim said "no" but whether the victim said "yes". Absence of "yes" should be treated as a "no". Takes the guesswork out, too.

I do love her music and her aesthetics. I hope she didn't do anything. I love her Dollhouse music video.

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