Kingdom of Knuffel

What a stressful few weeks it's been.

My poor sister has been in and out of hospital with a myriad of issues; she's currently got a slipped disc in her back that's severely painful and makes it hard for her to walk. I'm trying to do my best but I always feel like it's not enough, especially when she's in so much pain and I can't do anything about it.

Does anyone else have advice or experience in caring for someone?

I haven't cared for anyone, but I've watched my family take care of my grandmother since she had a stroke. It's been very hard on my mom and uncles. Sometimes either or has to get away and do something for themselves. I have a three year old daughter and I feel that way from time to time, but it's nothing like caring for a sick or disabled loved one.

Maybe make sure she's surrounded by snacks, drinks, and entertainment so she can avoid getting up as much as possible. Ask if she needs anything a few times a day. I'm stuck in bed with a broken toe for a few weeks, and that's what everyone is doing for me.

Definitely make time for yourself regularly. Also, if your sister gets snippy or short with you, remember it's not personal, it's likely frustration at the situation itself.

This is all great advice thanks so much.

Luckily she is starting to show signs of improving but I just wish I could help get her over the hurdle so she can properly being recovery (at the moment it's just pain management)

I'm always happy to do whatever she needs but I feel like I might have a cold coming on so REALLY don't want to add that to her list of ailments haha

sometimes, all you can do is pain management as the body heals.

Make sure you're wearing a good mask, and washing your hands often!