i've had to work through shame. feeling like i'm a bad person for being attracted to someone, because of you know. society saying that sexual desire is shameful in a woman. (funnily enough i don't feel ashamed when i'm generally horny, i'm only ashamed when it's targeted.) and trying to approach a person you're interested in can be anxiety inducing.
i have very broad definitions of sex, everything generally called foreplay is sex to me. anything sexual is sexy timez and i don't feel like it has to go the penetrative route. (and i only have clitoral orgasms so penetration is meh, whatever).
one of the sex toy brands in my country called
sangya project platforms many diverse people's sexual experiences and also general sex ed and awareness on less talked of topics, and it's really great. it gives me a lot to reflect on about my own sexuality, aside from teaching me things i wouldn't find out about otherwise.