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Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 11th, '19, 17:26
by Sanssouci
From The Book of Questions by Gregory Stock.

Question #14: Would you rather be extremely successful professionally and have a tolerable yet unexciting private life, or have an extremely happy private life and only a tolerable and uninspiring professional life?

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 11th, '19, 20:56
by Moi

Well, I'd like to be a professional artist and make money off of selling art and I would prefer a very private life and my life is already unexciting so 8u

I actually struggle with wanting to be a professional artist and not wanting tons of attention.
Like...you can't be famous and not get attention.

I want money and to be left alone.
xD

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 11th, '19, 21:03
by Sanssouci
I don't really like the wording of this question. I think he should have asked if you would rather have a good job and just an ok personal life or if you would rather have a good personal life and just an ok job. I don't think he should have tried to describe it because "unexciting personal life" sounds ideal to me! But either way, I don't really care about my professional life. I actually don't even have a professional life. It would be nice to have more money coming in, but I could do that with the tolerable/just ok job.

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 11th, '19, 22:00
by Arachne
I actually also prefer a happy private life with just a fine job. I don't see myself giving my absolute all to any job, since it won't satisfy me in the slightest.

If my job would be really crucial, if it would actually matter a lot for many people, like a doctor, firefighter, scientist and so on, I think I might actually think the other way. But since it's not, I don't care.

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 11th, '19, 23:33
by Rune
God that's a hard decision these days.. in the past I would have without hesitation said private life.. but now things are a little different, I don't have EVERYTHING on the line anymore.
I still think I might choose a happier private life.. probably.. :mcsweat:

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 12th, '19, 09:45
by Akili Li
Mmmmm.
Professional life lasts until you retire.
Private life is until you die.

I choose private life.

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 12th, '19, 22:57
by Miky90
I think I would prefere an exciting job. I know I'm against nature here, but we do spend an awful amount of our lives at the workplace or comuting to it, might as well be excited about it.

Re: Professional or Private

Posted: Apr 13th, '19, 01:33
by Moi

A mundane or simple or boring life is just fine.
I've had the rug pulled out from under me so many times, so having an unexciting life is okay xD
I make sure to give thanks every night.

But I really want to get out there and make good money.
But I don't like tons of people talking to me and such at the same time.
And I can't deal with rude people very good.