I'll do my best, it's just hard sometimes because of course everyone reacts to grief in an individual way.
Like I don't think it's a good idea for me to share stories personally because I'll end up crying if I try to do that.
But I can listen...
and I can talk about other things if you need a distraction
(for instance, if you've been gone for a while, are you familiar at all with the Candy Caravan? And how that works? Because Grog there to the right under your avatar picture, the event shop link, well he only shows up for a few days each month. So if you'd like to get those items posting a lot in the forums so you can get donuts to spend there is a good idea. When he's not here, you can sometimes randomly get between 1 and 3 donuts per post, just like you can randomly get daycare coupons sometimes when you post. When he IS here, every post gives 1 donut. Exception for both is the spam and word games forums; those don't give any. Or, they're not supposed to. Report it if they do.)