Kingdom of Knuffel

Apparently not. Lmao. That's okay, when my mom was doing real bad she kept telling us all the negative things that could happen and I'm like, ya'll shush, I'm already not dealing with this not that well at all. (I know she means good, but she really over steps her boundaries)

that's awful :( that's the last thing you needed

Yeah. She LITERALLY sent a newsletter out to her church about my mom and how she was accepting visitors WITHOUT asking anyone, we found out, my step-dad sent a text a little on the nasty side, but she came back full nasty and it was bad. She said we (my siblings and I) are liars and all we say are hurtful things about her and her daughters. (not true at all)

EDIT TO SAY when I say nasty I mean mean and not kind.

ugh, she brings the drama. that is spiteful of her.

IKR! Once we were out eating with her and my two girl cousins and all of the sudden she starts yelling and making a scene before storming out. She thought we were talking about how my uncle had an affair and we weren't even talking about this. It's funny because moments before she was saying stuff about how she's a good Christian and she's learned to forgive. (she still hasn't forgiven her ex-friend for letting her know her husband was having an affair)

i'm astounded that instead of not-forgiving her husband who actually had the affair, she chooses to not-forgive the friend who informed her about it. any friend who cares will think you ought to know something of this magnitude!

It's insane. She won't go to event/gatherings if she knew that person is going to be there. Except, she did say something that if my mom wanted to see her and if she was there, then she will be okay with that (this was when my mom was dying in hospital).

okay, i do not understand this woman's logic AT ALL, lol.

If you ever talk to her (I hope you don't lol) you can tell she is very much a me, me, me person. lol. After that one argument about how we lie about her and her kids, she called me up like a couple weeks later to apologize and I just said okay. She accepted that as me accepting her apology, but I just didn't care enough tbh, because I was more worried about my mom. lol.

yeah she sounds very self centered and also like she doesn't understand how she affects the people around her. like, no empathy, no understanding of another person's point of view.