I recently went through a break up. I am not heartbroken or anything. We are still good friends. Right now I have another partner, and I am lowkey looking for more(I'm polyamorous). But I think I moved on a bit too early. For the first while of my relationship with my current girlfriend, I felt some sort of relationship whiplash because I still felt attachment to my ex. Everything is okay now though.

The thing with relationships is that you really shouldn't rush head first into anything. Some people just don't understand that they don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. A lot of the time they are a lot happier when they are single.

I have had my fair share of breakups (break up rather). I'm currently in a relationship with my bf for 7 years. Although we made it this far, I still have some doubts about him. Hate to admit it but I still feel a bit of dislike with one of his ex-flames. The girl just won't stop wanting to establish some sort of friendship IRL and wants to reconnect with my bf in SNS. I wouldn't mind but that particular ex makes me uneasy somehow, considering the fact that she used to make hate status about me in the past. I just still feel that her intentions aren't that good (or I have been just to judgy) and the fact that she hasn't dated anyone yet after all those years. I don't know, Love is truly complicated lol