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Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 4th, '22, 01:59
by Moi
That's pretty inconsiderate :\
I learned in my longass life that a lot of people are inconsiderate xD
I always think of others and try to put myself second but very rarely do people seem to care about me in those instances Bu
It's about them and their needs and their interests.
And then I get called inconsiderate because I stop wanting to deal with their shit o_O
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 4th, '22, 18:42
by Amura
I suppose he's inconsiderate indeed.
I love him dearly, but he's got used to put himself first. That's the way he was raised after all.
I've been living in this city for almost 4 years now.
I visit them every month.
He's visited us twice.
Ok, it's true that during lock down it was not possible. It's true that we have Friday afternoon off so it's easy for us travelling any weekend.
But still... only twice?
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 4th, '22, 21:15
by Moi
I mean...I need to visit my dad and I don't.
But it's because of my Agoraphobia.
And people keep shaming me for it.
Like sorry I have a crippling mental disorder Bu
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 4th, '22, 22:08
by Amura
But that's a completely different thing.
I'm sure your father understands.
Do you get to meet him often, or he can't visit you either?
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 5th, '22, 01:38
by Moi
Not really. He complains I don't visit much.
Then my mom guilts me for not visiting him.
He's across town. He comes by every now and then but he works and sleeps a lot.
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 5th, '22, 13:21
by Amura
Hm.
But considering your agoraphobia...
Maybe he does not fully understands it?
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 5th, '22, 21:05
by Moi
I don't know. My family just calls me ungrateful and a stick in the mud and guilt me over not wanting to leave home to go to the store and all of this stuff.
And if I tell them they're being inconsiderate, they talk shit to me and ignore what I said completely Bu
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 6th, '22, 13:20
by Amura
I suppose it must be hard for them too.
They want you to do things and they can't really understand why you can't :|
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 6th, '22, 21:17
by Moi
I just wish they'd listen. I explain to them and they basically just roll their eyes.
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Apr 7th, '22, 08:54
by Amura
And has it always been like this?
Because I thought I understood they were supportive when you dropped school and all that, so I assumed they understood your issues...