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Posted: Sep 23rd, '23, 05:01
by light_sucks
Oh yeah, old houses everything needs replaced or fixed.
I just had to pay to get the AC replaced here because it was leaking refrigerant and full of mold. Gross.
That unfortunately took a very large portion of my remaining divorce settlement.
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Posted: Sep 23rd, '23, 10:46
by Kitalpha Hart
Yick. But hey at least it's fixed
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Posted: Sep 25th, '23, 05:47
by light_sucks
Indeed. It should last 15 years and maybe the world will have ended by then. lol.
Or I will be dead. More likely.
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Posted: Sep 25th, '23, 06:43
by Kitalpha Hart
15 years will be halfway through my mortgage :')
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Posted: Sep 26th, '23, 18:54
by Dearest
big life changes are always so scary
it sounds like you've been through the wringer
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Posted: Sep 30th, '23, 09:28
by light_sucks
My whole life has been gone through a wringer. It's never ever been easy. I wish that I could be cool and collected about it like some people but I have a lot of rage and bitterness.
I hope that my new therapist that I start seeing on Sunday doesn't suck.
Mortgages are scary and confusing. My ex and I had one on my old house. It was inherited from his late mother. But she barely put any payment on it. I think she probably refinanced it a LOT.
We ended up doing it once before we got divorced.
But he got the house and the car in the divorce. I wish that I had hired a lawyer to help me, but I was very stupid and trusting. I didn't realize he was going to fuck me over.
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Posted: Oct 1st, '23, 20:35
by Moi
I'm sorry all of that stuff has happened ;; -hugs-
I hope your therapist is good to you.
I haven't seen mine since before COVID.
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Posted: Oct 2nd, '23, 03:35
by Dearest
Moss, I'm sorry your husband was such an asshole. It's so unfair.
I hope this therapist clicks. It took me a few tries to find a therapist that clicked for me.
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Posted: Oct 2nd, '23, 22:01
by Moi
I've not seen many therapists myself but I'm happy I found the one I did.
He helped me so much when I needed him.
I hope he still works at the clinic =_=
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Posted: Oct 3rd, '23, 17:20
by light_sucks
I've been in therapy off and on since I was 11. So I've seen many many therapists.
Most of them weren't great. Somehow none of them saw my glaringly obvious signs of autism even though my chief complaints were that I couldn't make friends or connect with anyone. And I also had so many sensory issues life was awful.
This therapy is going to be all online. I tried on Sunday but it kept saying I didn't have a microphone. But I was on my phone and that has one in it. It was very annoying. They ended up canceling and moving the appointment to today. But with a different therapist. I hope that they don't try to do that every appointment. I could maybe deal with having two therapists, but there's no way I could open up to a new therapist every time I tried to get some therapy.