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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 23rd, '23, 05:01    


light_sucks

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Oh yeah, old houses everything needs replaced or fixed.

I just had to pay to get the AC replaced here because it was leaking refrigerant and full of mold. Gross.

That unfortunately took a very large portion of my remaining divorce settlement.

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 23rd, '23, 10:46    


Kitalpha Hart

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Yick. But hey at least it's fixed

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 25th, '23, 05:47    


light_sucks

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Indeed. It should last 15 years and maybe the world will have ended by then. lol.
Or I will be dead. More likely.

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 25th, '23, 06:43    


Kitalpha Hart

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15 years will be halfway through my mortgage :')

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 26th, '23, 18:54    


Dearest

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big life changes are always so scary :mcgasp: it sounds like you've been through the wringer

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Sep 30th, '23, 09:28    


light_sucks

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My whole life has been gone through a wringer. It's never ever been easy. I wish that I could be cool and collected about it like some people but I have a lot of rage and bitterness.

I hope that my new therapist that I start seeing on Sunday doesn't suck.



Mortgages are scary and confusing. My ex and I had one on my old house. It was inherited from his late mother. But she barely put any payment on it. I think she probably refinanced it a LOT.

We ended up doing it once before we got divorced.

But he got the house and the car in the divorce. I wish that I had hired a lawyer to help me, but I was very stupid and trusting. I didn't realize he was going to fuck me over.

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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Oct 1st, '23, 20:35    


Moi

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I'm sorry all of that stuff has happened ;; -hugs-

I hope your therapist is good to you.
I haven't seen mine since before COVID.

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A world of fragile things
Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Oct 2nd, '23, 03:35    


Dearest

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Moss, I'm sorry your husband was such an asshole. It's so unfair.

I hope this therapist clicks. It took me a few tries to find a therapist that clicked for me.

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Stroctoperry wrote:Because KofK trumps homework, for some reason.
Death Candy wrote:I just realized that "take out" means food, dating, and murder. And if you were a female praying mantis you'd have all three.
Akili Li wrote:People talk about bravery in these super dramatic terms like it only applies to soldiers going to war, but for all that I think true courage is found in the hard every day moments of social interaction and standing up for what you believe in even when it's not life-or-death, when it's instead a matter of approval-or-ostracization among people whose opinions you care about. That's harder, to my mind. That's an ongoing, you have to live with it forever thing, instead of one single moment that's the exception instead of the rule.
AsheSkyler wrote:Bless the modern era's availability of so much art and creativity. [...]our ability to connect and share such wonderful things makes it a good time to be alive. :qh:


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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Oct 2nd, '23, 22:01    


Moi

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I've not seen many therapists myself but I'm happy I found the one I did.
He helped me so much when I needed him.
I hope he still works at the clinic =_=

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"I'll miss the winter
A world of fragile things
Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
I know you hear me,
I can taste it in your tears."



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 Post subject: Re: Moss' Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: Oct 3rd, '23, 17:20    


light_sucks

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I've been in therapy off and on since I was 11. So I've seen many many therapists.

Most of them weren't great. Somehow none of them saw my glaringly obvious signs of autism even though my chief complaints were that I couldn't make friends or connect with anyone. And I also had so many sensory issues life was awful.


This therapy is going to be all online. I tried on Sunday but it kept saying I didn't have a microphone. But I was on my phone and that has one in it. It was very annoying. They ended up canceling and moving the appointment to today. But with a different therapist. I hope that they don't try to do that every appointment. I could maybe deal with having two therapists, but there's no way I could open up to a new therapist every time I tried to get some therapy.

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Call me Moss.

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