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Re: [ Building a new house for Amura ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 09:02
by Amura
My dad has had his fair share of surgery.
Injuries when he was younger. Meniscus when he fell from a roof.
He got his prostate removed a few years ago.
This time it was a bit more complicated. He had appendicitis back in April, but because it took him so long to go to the hospital (covid is making healthcare more complicated) his appendix became inflamed and got stuck to other organs, so they could not remove it right away.
Since then he's been on and off from the hospital, and now they finally found it was possible to remove the appendix.
I was a bit scared because there was a chance they could find they still needed to remove part of the intestine, etc. But luckily everything was A-ok!

There has been quite a bunch of serious surgeries in my family, so I guess you get kinda used to the "simple" ones.
But surgery is still surgery and always frightens.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 12:43
by Amura
The background has changed! Donuts hanging on trees!! :mcsquee:
And there is an event shop in the right menu!!! :mcsquee:

Is the Caravan thing about to start?
I'm super excited!!!!

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 19:56
by Vivacity
Hiya hiya! I feel like I'm active in small spurts of time and then I get busy...I was here for the summer event, but mostly lurking since I didn't have much time to post, but I hope to be active again, so I'm coming in here, if you don't mind!

I see you all were talking about surgeries, and I agree that it always frightens, though I'm lucky that neither I nor any of my close families have had to go through that, so sending you all virtual hugs! I'm glad everything turned out ok in the end, Amura. ^^

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 20:17
by Amura
Sure, all are welcome in this little hangout!
The more the merrier... and more donuts :mclaugh:


And thank you! :qh:

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 21:18
by Moi

I had no idea an appendix could get stuck like that o_O
At least they got it fixed before it got even worse.

I remember when my grandpa got diagnosed with lung cancer, they were going to operate on him but they said they needed to do heart surgery first.
I was so on edge while they did his surgery. He came out okay and died from the cancer not long after :\
My dad had his gallbladder surgery in the exact same hospital and I had to sit in the exact same waiting room.
I wanted to go home because I didn't want to be there in that room.
My mom aunt decided I was just being selfish and didn't care about my dad so they made me stay there.
I still think I was being reasonable and they were just being ignorant.


The only surgery I've ever had was having my wisdom teeth removed.
I don't know if I was supposed to be out of it, but I wasn't.
I couldn't feel anything, but I was fully aware of everything.
The dentist treated me like I was supposed to be out of it by helping me get to our car.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 17th, '21, 21:49
by Amura
They forced you to stay? :mcomg:

I've been on waiting rooms, and you are literally doing nothing there.
Usually one person waits - in case the doctors give some information - and another one accompanies him/her - because waiting alone may be hard on one's nerves.
And those people can rotate. One arrives, the other one takes a break.
But there is no point in the whole family being on a waiting room - unless you do want to. Which sometimes happens.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 18th, '21, 01:56
by Moi

Yeah. They said since my dad was in surgery, then I HAD to stay.
So I sat in the hospital, anxious as hell and sobbing instead of being able to go home for a bit or even just get my drawing pad to draw on.
Normally I can understand the point, but not in that case.
I think my mom and aunt were just being bitches.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 18th, '21, 08:12
by Amura
Under stress people make stupid choices.
I guess they were so worried themselves that they did not think it thru, because it hardly makes any sense.

My brother had the day off the day my had surgery. But he did not go to the hospital a all, because my mom was there and when she needed someone I was ther for her. There was no point in all being there.
Therefore he decided to do some work despite having the day off (which is kinda amusing) while being always reachable by phone in case we had news for him.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 18th, '21, 09:20
by Jolien
Back in da house. ;-D See it's in a tree now.

To answer the old question, my son turned 8. He asked a few weeks before if he was allowed to invite 3 friends and I couldn't resist. It was quite hot, so we put out a tarp outside, threw a lot of dishwashing soap on it and a little water. Also made a cake (I usually only bake birthday cakes, for husband and kids) and it was nice. :)

Think the kids enjoyed it, cake turned out nice, but there's not really a way to destroy a basic dough and whipped cream, soo...

No hospital news here, luckily. :)

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Aug 18th, '21, 10:44
by Amura
Yeah, I decided I would buy a virtual house on a tree, since I can't have one in real life.
Pure envy, you know.


I like smallish birthday parties.
When I was a kid we used to invite 3, 4 or 5 friends and that was it. Everything was quite easy to arrange.
Now people like to invite the whole class, and you have 20+ or 30+ kids so you end up hiring some professional services because you just can't handle that many kids.
In all honesty I'm glad covid forced us to go back to smaller parties.


I don't bake much either.
And my son is not a fan of cakes. He did not want one for his last two birthdays. Nutella sandwiches it was. Nothing can be easier :qg:


As a kid I loved the classic biscuits + custard + chocolate cake.
It's very popular here because it's easy enough for kids to make, and requires no baking.