Kingdom of Knuffel

Haha oh gosh xD Well that's annoying. But yeah at least one of you has a job at any one time. Would be worse if you were both unemployed and on top of getting no monies, your stuck together 24 hours a day.
Well unless you'd like that. My parents used to work together, then go out together, then go home together. Now they're unemployed together and all they do is play cards all day xD

I love my husband and I love spending time with him... but all day everyday does get a bit much. He was injured and was on paid leave for a month in december, home every day x.x

Ha I'd go insane having to be with anyone for 24 hours a day but I'm somewhat of a loner and like my own space xD
Like that somewhat bf I mentioned yesterday, we tried living together in 2006...but it drove me insane after the first month! We weren't even together all day but when he came home he'd be wanting to watch crap like boxing and fishing....I mean fishing by itself is boring but watching it??? Pfft. I think we were (are) too selfish and set in our ways. So that led to a 4 year break up in 2008 xD

I'm curious why he's your somewhat boyfriend then?
Hubby and I met online. Knew one another for... five years? Talked about marriage but decided to wait until I was done with college. Then I went to live with him for a month in WA, so that we could determine if we were compatible with those kinds of everyday things. Chores, work, budget, etc. He proposed to me while I was there :) We've been married five years now.

Aww that is so sweet!
I say somewhat bf because we started seeing each other again in 2012...but never 'officially' got back together.
We just see each other once or twice a week, have dinner etc....I don't want that conversation. Because I don't really want a bf. Or maybe I just don't want him as a bf, idk xD

So he's just your good guy friend then :) If you keep saying sorta bf, and your friends hear that, you may miss out on potential actual bfs.

Well idk...feels a bit weird to call him just my friend after all we have been through...xD
Like sometimes I feel like we're meant to be together or something....then other times I question why I even bother with him.
But I don't really want a bf tbh. When Warren and I broke up in 08, I met someone else and when we broke up in 2012....up until now I don't think I ever got over him and doubt I ever will. So my thought lies somewhere in the...what's the point in settling for second best when no guy will ever compare? Camp
Like Warren serves the purpose of a bf I guess without giving me the stress of babies, marriage, living together etc...idk if I can do it again @_@

Huh, it makes sense in a strange, Illyria way. :) Whatever works for you *nods* I can understand the appeal of an "open" relationship.

Hahaha xD
'Strange illyria way'
Usually it takes people a little longer to figure out that I'm strange

Nah, we're friends, everyone who's friends with me is strange XD