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Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 14th, '21, 18:04
by Jolien
Moving can be frustrating. <3 Take your time, we'll hang around for a while. ;-)

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 14:11
by Rayven
memoriam wrote:Wow, deep feelings sounds pretty serious to me, and it progressed rather quickly, too! :mcglee: I hope you'll be able to be happy together :mcgrin: How long have you two been sweet on one another anyways? XD

I never had any allergies as a child, so this hay fever is kind of new to me, as well as some of my food sensitivities. But I know some allergies can come later in life so I guess tjhat's my case. :mclaugh:

Hmm, 7-8 years? But we didn't really have that phase of just dating but being on our own. We basically moved in together (to my granny's) sometime after highschool/in the beginning of university years (what makes about 3 years after getting together). His closest family moved to another city and he had no place to stay, so my grandma agreed for him to live with us. we've been living together ever since, either at my grandma's place, at his step-dad's, back with my grandma, and then the pandemic hit and we decided we won't be able to stay sane with my granny 24/7, so he rented a place.
I'm not sure why he needs to be completely alone but apparently I gave him the idea :mclol: I can't even remember, but it totally sounds like something I would say. He's been telling me more and more frequently that he's generally unhappy and would like some alone time. So I told him (more than once, according to him, lol) that maybe he needs to live on his own for some time. He often spoke about going off into the world just by himself, be completely independed etc., so I supposed that's the feeling he's missing. And so he took my advise (which I can't remember, but I'm okay with it :mclaugh: )
I asked him how long he'd like to live that way and he said he didn't even think about it XD But I don't think it'll be that long, since after not seeing me for just 2 days he was all cuddly and said he really missed me. And I was like: "how will you even survive a month without me if we were apart for merely two days and now you can't stop hugging me? XD"
I am not worried he'll break up because he still talks about our future together and I trust him. Plus I see this as an opportunity to find myself as well, maybe I won't be as distracted without him around, who knows? :mctongue:

My mom will indeed be happy, especially we both want to work in the same branch (proofreading, editing) and she thinks I know more than she does because I started my course earlier and encouraged her to do the same XD
I'm low-key worried she'll be bothering me with questions but I'm probably worried for nothing. I got that after her :mclaugh:






Sorry it took me so long to respond. :qoops: I've been super busy and...in love. XD Yeah, it did but in answer to your question, we've known each other almost a year I think. And we bonded over his dad and then taking care of his dad's pets once he passed away. I'm not sure at what point I started being sweet on him because I tried to fight it because he's married. Maybe the first time I saw him smile. *gushes* It turns out he thought I was pretty cute when he saw me walking my dog before I even met him or his dad. XD But he didn't take it seriously until we started spending so much time together after his dad passed away.

So, just an update. We are now madly in love and moving in together into his dad's house just as soon as he can get all of his affairs in order. I got stuck spending some time with his wife recently and all she could talk about was waiting for him to die so she could collect the life insurance money. O.O :qs: That was so upsetting. He wasn't surprised when I told him. He was just like, "Why do you think I want to leave her?!" That and finding me of course. :qh: He wanted to leave for a long time but he was too chicken I guess. He hates change. But now he has a good reason to do it.

Yeah. Allergies can change even when we get old. Kind of sucks there's no break from that. XD

That's a long time. I'm glad you're comfortable with it and that it may give you some much needed focus too. :qg: I like it when they get all cuddly. XD He's like that when I see him after he gets off from work. He said he thinks about me all day. :mccute: :qh:

XD I'm sure everything will be ok. How are things going now?

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 15:26
by redk5
do you still have the Queen's Mini Cat Ears

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 17:10
by memoriam
@Ray: Aw, that's a cute love story :mchappy:

WOW, what a major B his wife is! Sounds like if she got bored of waiting she'd do something about it, if you catch my drift :mcomg:
Did he make some steps toward the divorce yet? I'd run if I were him :mcheh:

Right now I'm easing into living with my mom. Which means a lot of cleaning of as much as I can. She's not in a good place mentally... :mcgloom: She's in a really really bad place.
It's pretty good between Ash and I. We text and call each other, we just met today for some late lunch. He's happy about the new apartment, he's making himself comfortable there, buying some audio stuff etc. I can make myself busy so for now I don't really miss him, but it's nice to go out to see him and to be somewhere together. :mccute: :qh:

@red: Yup, I sent them to you :mccute:

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 17:22
by Amura
Rayven, your story could be turned into a romantic movie!
I'm here hoping he gets the divorce quickly, because the sooner is always the better.



Aw, memoriam, living with someone who is not well is always hard.
Take care of yourself too, don't forget it :)

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 21:03
by Rayven
mem-Thanks! :qg: I think so too. So many pieces had to be in place for it to work out like it did. It's a miracle to me. :qh:

I know! That's what I told him but he doesn't seem scared. *shrugs* I made some calls to find a lawyer because he works all the time and he approves of my choice. He's planning on filing when he leaves her. Me too.

I'm sorry to hear about your mom. :qsob: I hope she feels better soon. At least she has you. I'm glad things are going well for you and Ash and that you're handling it well. I'd be going nuts but Sam and I are still in the "everything is new and wonderful and I can't wait to see you" phase. XD







Amura-Yes, it could. :mclaugh: Or a good story on a soap opera.

Thank you. Me too. :mccute:

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 15th, '21, 22:51
by Dream-Baby
@Ray not a soap opera, people get shot on those. We want happy endings. :}

@mam sorry for not posting for a while, been busy getting back into writing.
And all the strength to you, as a person who's been dealing with mental issues for the past few years having somebody there to help was a lifesaver. You and your mom will be okay. :}

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 16th, '21, 00:35
by redk5
thank you so much, memoriam

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 16th, '21, 02:25
by Rayven
Dream-Baby wrote:@Ray not a soap opera, people get shot on those. We want happy endings. :}

Lol Very true. My parents are scared about how his wife will react when he tells her it's over. I hope she doesn't take things too far. O.O I mean, it's not like she truly cares about him. She's going to be pretty mad about losing money though.

Re: Giving out my items for free!

Posted: Aug 16th, '21, 12:05
by Amura
It's hard to believe that people like her actually exist.
How can one be so greedy, living with someone you don't care at all? Embittering yourself (because you can't be happy that way) just for the sake of money!

And to be honest, I hope you realize you fell in love with a silly kind of guy :mclaugh:
If things were that bad he ought to have changed them, not just because he's got an important reason now (ie, you) but for himself.
I'm hoping he learns a good lesson here!