memoriam wrote:Well, he isn't telling me to stop wearing what I actually like

He criticizes with some taste too, so if he knows I like something he isn't fond of that much, he'll drop it. Most of the time he compliments me anyways, even though we have different clothing tastes. Sometimes we walk around some galleries and he notices something he thinks is nice and I'm like "orly?

" other times it's the other way around
We were moving recently and I decided to give up one old sweater of mine and bf said: "ohmygosh, I'm SO happy you're giving it away. I love you, but it's the ugliest thing on the planet"
me: my grandma gave it to me...
bf: well, that's self-explanatory.
So yeah XD
I must agree with your son, green is life

XD
About the items, you don't have to rush into anything

1) I can understand you may not be able/willing to buy the items I might sell for coins and 2) I still have to decide whether I really want to sell these items and that usually takes me a long while

I'm also not really sure what prices I'd value them at, so there's also that.
But maybe making that list would actually help me decide

Loool XD
Back then my grandmother made some pullover or jackets by herself for me.
I clearly remember a knitted jacket..it was dark purple..thick ok,but kinda fuzzy,at least a bit too much for my taste(XD) and then there were at the sides these bobblez? do you know what i mean?
It looked like a whool spider(children often make these)without legs and eyes..
And they were so big...X_X
I never liked it..really,but i wore it,since she made it especially for me XD
I kinda gave this up at a certain point,because i was feeling that i kinda lied..even though i wanted to make her happy,i guess telling her my taste is much better XD
Lol green was my fav color back then..but just because when i was young and in school later (i always loves rosa~) it was absolutly a taboo for girls to love this color,so i had to deny it(XD) and decide on something else..
Green was popular among girls,so i chose this one aswell..
Back then my room was green for 16 years..
Now its rosa XD and i am much happier with it XD
I love to make lists!*-*
I usually do it this way when trading or buying items from others.
-I get a list of items they might be willing to sell
(sometimes they already put in some values like
*** Dress (10-30k) <- like this.If they dont)
-I let them know how much i would be willing to pay/what i value them at.
I usually color the numbers blue..makes it easier to see through it XD
especially for longer lists...><
-I get a message back with the last and their values.
If they value something the same,they dont change my blue numbers.
If they think differently they change the numbers and make them red.
-Then i write back and let them know what i think about it all, what i like to get,ect,ect(also maybe when i have something from their list,we talk about their values then)
-I get a message back,what they think about it all and we still have rum to haggle or discuss something XD
It takes a bit,thats true,..but its kinda easy to see in the end,you have everything on one piece of paper,colored to determine the changes and you're able to talk about thinks like splitting ,putting on hold .ect..
I have someone,i trade with since now 3 months XD
it was a reaally big trade of many items*-* And she is nice enough to hold those items for a few months.This made it a bit easier to include/pay a few more FC for it in the end.
(5 FC will be used for the last batch now XD),once i buy coins.
Right now i have still one FC on hand,trying desperatly to hold back..But had to buy the MT so down to 1 coins now.Not sure for how long i can keep it..depending whats showing up on the market XD
I wish we would be able to sort our wishlist to "most wanted, MUST have, not so much" ect..Would help a great deal to be honest! especially while trading and determine the personal value for others.
I mean i pay for URGENT DREAMS a lot but i pay less for items on my personal "most wanted" list,even though that i would still bid much.
Then they're items i only want for a complete set, or will raely use,because they dont match into other things XD(colors,shape,ect..)..
for those i pay not thaat much..so might only between 5-15k..>< always depending..
So if you wanna make a list,you might want to send it to me*-*
please feel free,if you feel the need to.
Depending on my offers you might be able to tell easier IF you wanna sell or not ^^'?
i am using your pills already!..wait..that sounds strange!
junkie in da house?XD