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Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 21st, '21, 20:39
by Moi
My therapist told me it's good to make eye contact because it lets people know you're listening to them.
He said I should also smile too.
Smiling lets people know I'm friendly.
I don't like smiling. In fact, I rarely show any facial expressions.
My therapist told me it's because I don't like people to be able to read me and know how I'm feeling.
And I like that. I like people not knowing what I'm thinking and feeling.
The funny thing is, I don't like people that do that.
Because I've spent my life watching and listening to people, I have learned ways to read them.
I can tell how they're feeling by their postures and their voice and their expressions.
I don't like people I can't read. They're unpredictable and I don't like it.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 22nd, '21, 06:18
by Pandemonium
Moi wrote:
I just don't like it when I say one thing wrong and then the game's like "NOPE YOU'RE NOT COMPATIBLE AT ALL GOODBYE!"
Like I've never been on a date, is that how it works 8u
I think to a certain degree, it does. Like, if it's someone you know and already like, then it won't happen that way. But dating sims are like dating apps/dating sites/speed dating. You judge your compatibility based on short interactions and in those cases, smallest thing CAN turn people off of you and vice-versa... after all, there are plenty more where you came from.
But anyway, the dating sim games I play will pair you up with the character of your choice regardless of your choices. The ending you get might not be as happy as if you've made all the right choices, but you get some romance nonetheless. Which I think is fair. Real life isn't all happily ever after after you find "the one", either, after all.Moi wrote:I don't care if people pull out in front of us.
See, that's something that could cause accidents so I will get mad at that. Until the offending car is no longer in my vicinity. But while they're still around me, I'll keep my eye on them because you never know what other dangerous driving habits they have.Moi wrote:According to my mom, the truck that almost hit us - she said it looked like the guy driving was drunk and said he swerved towards us on purpose.
Wat. :V I don't know. I mean, drunk people do stupid things, but I'd think it's usually more, "I can keep my car straight! Look at me go! Oh that car is swerving towards me and so is that tree."
I don't know if this will be easier but I watched a show that said people tend to like people who mimic them so maybe if you mimic their expression and the way they tilt their head that might help people realize how friendly you actually are? And if you're mimicking them, then they won't know what you're thinking and feeling.
The game prize was taken down and replaced due to a lack of interest. The new game prize is: 
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 22nd, '21, 20:55
by Moi
It's like...
Date: Do you like raspberries :3
Me: Not really 8u
Date: Sorry, I can't date you bye >Bu
Me: What the fuck 8u
Don't get me wrong, I don't like people pulling out in front of us, but after it happens I'm like "Wow what an asshole Bu" and it's done. She talks about it another 15 minutes ._.
Like it happened, it's over, you don't have to continuously bitch >>
Yeah, I think she was imagining it 8u
She tends to get hostile like that.
That sounds creepy xD
I mean...I don't want people to come up and talk to me...
I don't want to be bothered by anyone and it's getting to be more and more like that.
I just want to be left alone.
So I don't feel the need to try and look friendly 8u
Then again, if someone needs help I don't mind them asking me but if I look angry, it won't happen xD
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 23rd, '21, 01:30
by AutobotDen
Moi wrote:
My therapist told me it's good to make eye contact because it lets people know you're listening to them.
Clearly, your therapist has never dealt with Autistic people. For a LOT of Autistic people, myself included, eye contact is uncomfortable at best, physically painful at worst.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 23rd, '21, 01:59
by Moi
Nah, he was just trying to get me to look people in the eye more.
I know he knows it's hard but he's encouraging me xD
I mean if someone else doesn't want to look in my eyes, it's totally fine with me.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 23rd, '21, 02:09
by AutobotDen
Fair enough. I'll stick to looking at the stems of glasses, or ears.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 23rd, '21, 22:24
by Moi
I remember when I was in choir, I was on stage a lot in front of audiences.
My choir teacher told us to look slightly above everyones' heads.
It gives the appearance that you're looking them in the eyes, but you're not 8u
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 23rd, '21, 23:27
by AutobotDen
Moi wrote:
I remember when I was in choir, I was on stage a lot in front of audiences.
My choir teacher told us to look slightly above everyones' heads.
It gives the appearance that you're looking them in the eyes, but you're not 8u
I remember being told that, too.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 24th, '21, 01:54
by Moi
I've never had anyone use it on me so I have no idea if it actually works xD
Also, did you know if you lock your knees for a bit, it can cause you to pass out u8
We used to have to stand on risers and my choir teacher warned us by telling us a girl in another class did that and she fainted and fell off.
I've never forgotten those two things.
Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: Oct 25th, '21, 02:47
by AutobotDen
Yup. Knew that. Never experienced it, but I've heard plenty of stories, and seen videos / gifs of soldiers faceplanting because they locked their knees...