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Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 8th, '20, 19:53
by Focsie
yes everything's there, it's just waiting for confirmation by sender. thank you so much really!
also if anyone here has an anthousai background (or the sagittarius one) could you text me? i've been desperately trying to buy one for years but no one seems to have it
i think i'll soon make a post on the buying/selling forum i have so much useless stuff and i've been trying to make this forest themed avi for so long haha
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 00:27
by Fire
memoriam wrote:@Fire: I'll spare you the details, since you've had your own share of crap, I'm sure
Basically the worst depression of my life
I don't want to get my hopes up about 2021, but I'm counting at least on the second half of 2021 to be better
Let's cross our fingers...
Well, I'm surprised too, but I guess I really don't advertise well or something.
That happens, don't worry about it
I've recently made some stupid mistakes in trades, so I feel you XD
I am so sorry to hear that, mem. Depression is the worst. And everything happening in the world this year doesn't help. If you ever want to talk, know that I'm here. <3 I suffer from pretty serious depression, as well, so I know how nice it is to have someone outside of the situation to vent to sometimes. ^^
While I'm here, can I also snag your Doughnight '14 Background (the Aqua one)? I just finished a new Dream Avatar, and I seem to be missing that one. <3
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 00:57
by memoriam
@Saphira: I just confirmed the trade
Ugh, I have both those backgrounds but I'm not ready yet to get rid of any of them
But should I change my mind, I'll PM you first
It seems difficult to find people interested in selling/buying items these days. Idk, maybe it's just me and my lack of activity in selling/buying forums. All the forums seems still to me.
@Fire: Aww, I'm sorry you're also dealing with it
I wanted to say that nothing sucks as much as depression, but realized it's subjective. I'm practicing gratitude to change my mindset,
it's easy to forget that even though I'm depressed, I'm still priviledged. I've got roof over my head, I've got money from work for a sick leave, I've got Ash, who's also battling his own demons but he's playing it cool, who supports me however he can, I have access to medical care, I starve only on my own wish because I refuse to acknowledge what my body needs to survive... there's still so much to be grateful for, so it can't be the ultimate disaster to have depression.
I'll keep you in mind shall I have a need to talk. And it goes the same for you, if you need an 'ear', I'll gladly lend it
I sent you the bg
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 12:55
by kenma
i just noticed that you're giving away some old gen knuffels, may i ask for dian, yldirim and earth 3? i started playing this year and it would be nice having some older knuffels that i didn't get a chance to get.
also if i'm not asking for too much may i also have these items from the summer and halloween events? (i don't want to be too greedy but they're all so nice and there's no way i can get them, since it's hard to find them on the market)
Spoiler
summer '17:
facemarks
hairclip
melon piece
sash
shirt
eyes (light pink)
hair (light pink)
summer '18
beach (gold)
palm leaves (leaf green)
halloween '14 scarecrow mouth
halloween '15
armwarmers coffee
undershirt light pink
hat coffee
tiara coffee
ring coffee
headwings coffee
wings coffee
tattoo coffee
border coffee
background light pink
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 14:06
by Rayven
Kuuki-Wow! Your mother sounds like a rebel. XD I bet that scared you to death. No wonder you want her at home.
mem-I'm sorry your depression has been so bad. I'm sure the pandemic has played a part, I think it's made most people feel horrible.
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 15:08
by Focsie
memoriam wrote:@Saphira: I just confirmed the trade
Ugh, I have both those backgrounds but I'm not ready yet to get rid of any of them
But should I change my mind, I'll PM you first
It seems difficult to find people interested in selling/buying items these days. Idk, maybe it's just me and my lack of activity in selling/buying forums. All the forums seems still to me.
thank you! omg i'm so jealous you have no idea haha. i've been playing since 2013 and i could never find those two backgrounds. i literally have only 6 items in my wishlist and they've been the same for years
please remember me if you're ever ready to get rid of them
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 16:27
by memoriam
@kenma: Hun, by all means, be greedy. I encourage it
I sent you the trade with items and knuffels you requested, but if there's anything else I can gift you with, just let me know
@Ray: To be fair,
Spoiler: BEWARE! DEPRESSED RANT AHEAD!
I think I've been depressed much longer than recently. At the end of 2019 I went through a tragic death of my pet rat. Then at the beginning of 2020 I had to euthanize her sister. I was left with two rat boogers (tried to help her cope with sister's death), turned out the boogers had worms, had to remove them thrice (now they're grown and healthy, the most calm ratsies ever, previous ones were devils, but I love them all). In the meantime my sister and her husband came to Poland at the end of January and I had an emotional incident (rage-wise and out-of-body kind) with them I still can't quite figure out (yes, it was my fault). Then the pandemic hit, then women's rights manifestations began, the politics in my country sucks and everything is just crumbling. So there's many reasons to be depressed, although I'm hella grateful for the sudden working from home, it's a dream.
Oh, also, Ash (my bf) told me a few days ago that apparently I've been depressed since he met me (which equals 10 years) and I feel stupid for never realizing it, because it's really plausible that he's right...
Luckily I'm in therapy and under psychiatric care
Sorry for such a huge text wall, I didn't mean to...
@Saphira: Wow, that's negatively impressive
I'll definitely remember about you, Rayven's my witness
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 17:03
by kenma
memoriam wrote:@kenma: Hun, by all means, be greedy. I encourage it
I sent you the trade with items and knuffels you requested, but if there's anything else I can gift you with, just let me know
i'll certainly ask if i need anything else then! thank you very much
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 9th, '20, 17:37
by memoriam
No problem
Re: Giving out my items for free!
Posted: Dec 10th, '20, 02:17
by Kuuki
So maybe we should be doing a depression club as well? XD
I've had pretty bad depressive episodes in my life, sometimes lasting years. At the very least the most recent ones were not as awful and didn't last as long as it was when I was a teen.
I send you hugs everyone, probably won't solve anything, but probably won't hurt either
Rayven wrote:Kuuki-Wow! Your mother sounds like a rebel. XD I bet that scared you to death. No wonder you want her at home.
My mother is back to a teenage mentality at nearly 70 years old.
When we still lived together you wouldn't believe the number of times I had to go and get mad at her because she was still screaming on the phone at midnight and I had work the next morning.
Exhausting. But it's better than her previous depressed state so that finally allowed me to leave.
That being said, that time really scared me because not only was there a pandemic (seriously though, what kind of company wouldn't cancel a bus trip at the time? I still don't understand their thinking) but I also was in immigration limbo and the process was 3 times longer than usual which also scared me to death. (and would have prevented me from going back ^^)