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Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 11:47
by Poshi
I got 4 for you Haze. It's usually better if you post numbers numerical that way your entry stands out amongst the text especially if I'm skimming.

Hmm, what do you mean by responding well to someone's body language? I've worked a lot as project leads and in retail and if you use body language right you can make the majority of people respond well to you. I usually go for open stances when I want to make friends and sales, gestures to indicate that I'm listening because people love it when you listen to them gab and lots of eye contact. This behaviour is also great for interviews. The show don't just speak aspect.

I have mixed feelings on Anne Rice's writing as well. I've read numerous of her Vampire Chronicles. I finished Tale of the body thief. Some are entrancing and some are a total bore. I hated Queen of the Damned, I couldn't wait to finish with Akasha although the side story into the Vampire conception was interesting.

Ah, but my vocabulary is lacking. I write lists of words on my phone and I go over them from time to time, however I can't imagine using some of these words in regular conversation. e.g. I have never heard anyone irl use adroit to describe a person.

It is true that some people don't, but we're all different and family doesn't mean the same thing for everyone. For some people family is what you're born into and how you build that relationship and for others family is what you make for yourself, not to whom you're related.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 11:52
by Julianne1122
DONUUUUUUTS. I'm at 130 donuts just from posting today XD

@Haze
What do you mean responding well to someone's body language?

@Poshi
Same feeling here. It's a shame too since their personalities on their channel isn't that simple at all.

For vocabularies, I usually rely on the books I've read. I would mentally bookmark words I'd like to use but end up never using them.

Also, did I pick a number for today?

@Mikael Hart
People are dying because of our text walls lol.

I feel the same too. There are authors that I like for their real life personalities and morals but not for their writings and vise versa. Especially so with fiction where their real life views may not necessarily reflect on a character's.

And woah. That's a lot of book recommendations. I have to jot all those down. Maybe I'll even set up a post in my personal quests thread to keep track of it XD.

I've been keeping up to date with Dan Brown's works aside from his latest one. It's called 'Origin' I think.

What elements appeal to you in books?

Ha...mythology sucks me in if I let my guard down. I can keep on reading books about the same mythology over and over again just to dissect the story and engrave their names in my head.

I used to RP too in Gaia but I noticed I couldn't keep up because of time constraints and my inability to write beautiful prose. But it's nice to hear that you found a good RP partner. Maybe you can reach out to him again?

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 11:57
by Haze
@Mikael
It's okay, I should be the one apologising for being a lazy ass.

@Poshi @Jul
4 what? *confused look*
Sure, I will post it in numbers next time.

Well what I mean is I'd naturally mimick others stances and was in position to make people feel more comfortable with me, or simply get that feeling whether someone is interested and engaged in the conversation but couldn't just put my finger on it. In my head, had no idea where I got all that information from so ignored it most of it. Reading books about it opened up a new world for me as I already was good communicating my feelings and others but couldn't exactly translate them. Hope that clears it up a bit.

For vocabulary, I usually have a list of words and force myself to write a short story with all of them included. Like the exercises we did in elementary school haha.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 11:59
by Lady River
Nah been wearing glasses for a long time but my previous pair the plastic arms on them are thin and just got used to them so it's just a case of I need the spot behind my ears to get used to thicker arms of the frames again.

And about the wall of texts, it's ok :) I do them too just don't feel like reading much atm

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:11
by Julianne1122
@Haze
Ah. I should probably read books regarding body language too. I've always been decent at reading a person's body language and getting their general emotional state but never knew what exactly it was that lead me to that nor what they are feeling exactly. It'll probably help me give the appropriate signs too.

That's such an earnest way of learning to use new vocabulary *^*

@Lady River
Yeah, that feeling sucks. I used to wear glasses too and it would always press either behind my ears or the bridge of my nose. It was always uncomfortable for me and I had to adjust it constantly. I think it's because the fit of the glasses was bad but I couldn't find better pairs because I have a really small face.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:19
by Haze
@Jul
That's exactly what I was talking about! I'm sure it will do you some good too :)

@Lady
That sounds annoying.
I'm supposed to wear glasses from time to time but it feels weird when I haven't wore them in a while so usually skip them.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:24
by Poshi
Mental bookmarking doesn't work ;-; Some words aren't just used in regular conversation making them difficult to integrate and remember.

Yes, you did Juli :3

@Haze
Oh, 4 was the number that the rng returned. So no match ovo; Ah alright, that makes sense. That's very diligent of you and probably more effective than what I'm doing. I'm not great at creative writing so short story wouldn't be the avenue for me. I want something to spice up my scientific research. Analytical words perhaps. Too much creative flare and I might deter the academics haha

Why glasses from time to time? I always thought they were a requirement once the optom determines you're no longer 20-20. I suppose it would make sense if you're long sighted but often that's with the elderly. I assume you're not 50? Or unless you had lens replacement surgery?

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:29
by Haze
Ah, that actually sounds way harder to me. It's alright as long as you find something that suits your style and stick to it :)

I have hypermetropia, had it ever since I was born, and it's basically that if we both look at the same thing I gotta make a bigger effort as my eyes get more tired easily. I'm used to it already, didn't even know I had it till 12 or so, so opt to go without the glasses. It's a birth defect so eye surgery or such won't fix it.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:32
by Poshi
That makes a lot more sense now. So you need reading glasses basically. As do I but for a very different reason. How did you read prior to 12? Without my glasses everything close up is super blurry and I squint. It gives me such a headache.

Re: ★ knuffel charity ++ new and old welcomed

Posted: Nov 10th, '17, 12:36
by Mikael Hart
@Poshi

Yeah, same, I read her Vampire Chronicles as well. It just got weirder and weirder, but then there are certain parts that are really exciting or written very beautifully. I stopped after the Body Thief, I think. Once she really started getting into demons and related lore, I just kinda jumped ship.

Aha, well, someone's gotta start using it for it to become a thing. I sometimes throw in words like "camaraderie" and "loquacious" into a written convo and think nothing of it, but earlier this week, I was describing a house to my friend (using the word "dilapidated") and ended up confusing us both because I didn't realize that she didn't know the word. She asked me back, "dilapitated" and that just threw me off and made me doubt myself. Never would've happened online though, but I'm spoiled by my easy access to a thesaurus and auto-correct. XD

We seem to have a lot of word-related convos, oddly enough. The week before that, we were musing over the difference between "cobwebs" and "spiderwebs". (Both mean the same thing, since "cob" used to refer to spiders. However, in modern terminology, cobwebs usually refer to the abandoned spiderwebs.)

Oh, another thing is, I don't have pronunciation problems when I write (obviously), but it does occur when I talk. I can't for the life of me remember which way is the correct way to say plaid (is it p-lad or is it p-layed?), and I've mispronounced "subtle" by pronouncing the "b" before because I was corrected.

I guess both apply to me for the term "family". Family is both the of blood and of bonding; I don't want to have to pick one over the other. Not all friends are family, but all my family (with one exception) is family to me.


@Julianne1122

I'm at 126. but I did spend some donuts for a friend and for a swap.

Oh! Dude, we could've just put our convos under a cut! XD
Spoiler
There we go.

Aha, those books I listed are all among my favorites (meaning that they've been read at least twice, if not multiple times, every few years). I don't even know how many times I've read Watership Down. I first picked up that book on a whim in middle school and never stopped reading it.

Good grief, I can appreciate a book on so many levels.

As a writer, I appreciate authors who can world-build, not only in terms of geography, but those who can create their own cultures (even better if their are multiple cultures that are distinctly different form our own). I like when there are details added that show their care (like creating currency that have their own names and not just preexisting names, or creating their own flora, or cultural practices, etc.). Extra points for consistency as well.

I like when there are characters who are well-rounded and characters you can appreciate as a reader (even if you don't like who they are as a person). I get hooked when the protagonist is a character who has strengths and flaws, but is still written in a way that a reader can come out saying that he's likable because of his redeeming qualities and strengths.

(This isn't a book character, but Mihashi from Oofuri is a great example of this. In the anime, he's portrayed as a character who seems weak-willed and lacks confidence --the type of character you seen in so many shounen anime. However, what sets him apart is how realistically he's portrayed; that his strengths don't just magically appear in pressing times because of some deep inner willpower or "potential" that he has. He's shown to be passionate about what he loves and is willing to work hard for it, even when he thinks he's no good, and even when his own teammates looked down on him. And the strength that he gained from that hard work is further given life by the support he receives from his friends. This isn't just some cheap, "You can do it!" cheers from the sidelines in a one-on-one battle --this is team sports at its finest, where everyone is growing together, helping each other by compensating for each other's weaknesses and improving together. Ugh, I'm just frickin' sentimental about my favorite anime. Mihashi isn't even my favorite character. *facehands* Second favorite, maybe, but I could write essays about why I think so and so character is so awesome in this series. It's so moving that I get teary-eyed watching it, though it does take a couple episodes to get hooked.)

Uhhh, got side-tracked in sentiment, there.

But essentially, a well-written character. I don't care if they are awesome and have fifty billion talents or if they're barely scraping by on skills --as long as they're likable and written to be believable as a person, it's all good to me. I've long since discarded the idea that having too much power makes a character a Mary Sue. If the author has the skill to write it well, they can pretty much go nuts on making a character. It's not like all characters are meant to be written as equals anyways. One Punch Man has proven that.

This applies to fics more than books (because I read fics when I crave something with romance as a key element), but I also like mature relationships that have depth. I gave you my definition of "mature" before, but basically, if people are going to just bicker and sulk in a relationship because they can't communicate properly or because they don't get their way, I'm out. If the relationship is based on shallow traits or because someone happens to be hot, I'm also out.

I like to explore relationships that are formed by two well-developed characters, be it friendship, or rivalry, or a sense of brotherhood, or romance, or whatever else; even antagonistic relationships. The characters need to have depth and need to be able to connect to each other as individuals, though, through decisions, preferably, and not just circumstance. (The reason I have problems with romance in RPs is because so often, it's formed purely around physical attraction and circumstance. Too many characters don't even have individual goals outside of hooking up with someone. Ugh, but I'm getting sidetracked again).

A good relationship is formed as you get to know a person, whether there is chemistry off the bat, or whether it's developed over time.


Um, anyways... another appeal is the author's writing style. I've read books outside of my usual genre before because I like the writer's style that much. 'Nough said; some people are just freakishly talented.

And then lastly, I can get drawn by a good story.


So basically, tl;dr: 01) world-building. 02) complex characters. 03) legit relationships with actual connection/chemistry that isn't solely driven by lust. 04) a good writing style. 05) a good story.

I'm sorry I ranted so much; I just get kinda crazy with what I like. XD; Also, I have a lot of opinions.


Is there a particular myth that you like?

Aha, I kinda feel you on that. I'm intimidated by some talented folks I've met on Gaia.

Oh, I talk to Stereo (the RPer) on Facebook, and I'm sure I can pick up the RP because she's just crazy-chill like that. Lately, I've been wanting to write for different characters, though. One is still a work in progress, and the other has been with me for two years, but we've been unable to snag a perfect match for writing a good pairing. He's got a bunch of friends from platonic RPs though, and it's been a blast writing those.