Kingdom of Knuffel

There's no need to worry about the foreplay *cackles to herself
We got it down :3 *continues cackling

I'm sure I can rule out foreplay. I have on and off days. Some days I feel really feisty and some days I'm out of juice and I just want to curl into a potato and sit in his lap.

I'm starting to think there's something physically wrong with me 'orz am I too small, is he too big, is it an angle thing, like can I get a more detailed mathematical outline for this. Can someone give me an angle, like 22 degrees from the horizontal in xyz position. Do I need more cushiony fat D: Does he need to lose weight *sulks

@River
I'm due for a pap smear soon. A laparoscopic looks invasive *screams. I find pap smears very uncomfortable already and endo sounds like such a pain. The business manager from my previous job had endo. She wouldn't come to work when she was on her period and she'd be in so much pain she'll go home early. She had the removal of excess uterus cells twice and it keeps coming back.

xD

well that's normal. I'm like that too, good/bad days.

It could just be need to work on together, what positioning you both like? be it sex positions or the positioning of him inside you? but I guess just also it is meant to be a fun relaxing thing right?

If tense it'd be like when getting vaccines, they hurt more when you tense up more.

ugh me too. I'm due august.... =/ Though I hear it's being phased out for some people with the hpv vaccine.

-nods- it is indeed prone to coming back. Have you read about the sister form of endo. It's endo but in the uterus instead of outside... -shudders-

I use my BC to skip.. I really really should have a period soon but I don't want to. The whole idea makes me nearly get a panic attack. That and the whole my period on birth control pills isn't a ovulating period well.. I don't see the point besides helping stop potential of blood clots. Cause atm that's the risk. And I don't want kids so if it like... hurts that chance I don't mind. hah

Yeah I don't fancy the laparoscopic either but if it diagnoses it...

I get cramps when I do have my period, even before I was on BC. And I do feel somewhat nauseous but not throwing up (thank god because that phobia is worse, I get panic attacks now).

I'm not even sure how to fix the positioning of him inside ;~; Usually we try to reposition but one wrong move and it's an acute pain and I'm no longer in the mood because it's stinging too.

Oh, I haven't heard about that. Weren't they super insistent on us still getting pap smears even with the hpv vaccine for the last decade or two?

Eh, I still think it's healthier/ideal to bleed once a month. Naturally my cycles are just very long which I am slightly thankful for. It's also a nightmare because I always carry pads from day 54 onwards because I'm not certain when it'll arrive. I was so stressed this semester that I had a total of 2 periods in 6 months and for the longest time I was like 'is the pregnancy test wrong, I don't feel pregnant, *worries for ever.' Last month's cycle was 95 days ^^; (I guess period prediction apps don't work for me anymore).

Oh, you hate throwing up? Me too =_=; I always force myself not to throw up even if I realllyy need to do so. I absolutely refuse.

I doubt there's something physically wrong with you, Poshi. A lot of women experience what you are tbh. But sex therapy is something you could look into because if there's any way to make the process more pleasant... you should go for it because you have so much of your sex life before you. Needn't be a face to face therapist if you don't think you need that but an online one similar to what JK shared. Like VMtherapy's Finishing School for example. But Omgyes looks like something that's a great way to start and see if this is something that helps you, since it's smaller price and quantity of content than workshops like the former

That sounds bad... but it could just be a too tense thing? are you tense still during?

It's been talked about last year or two. Yeah they were so it's like iono...

tbh if I don't have to I won't but if it prevents cancer scares still even though they say I won't need to then I'd prob still go for every 2 years..

Except the blood is just the lining.. it's not the ovulation blood. Tbh those with endo are recommended to skip often using BC.

Are you on BC? cause you can still use it to keep the period regular, it's just it's not a ovulating bleed.. -researched and mentioned to my gp and she confirmed-.

Actually the first BC made didn't have sugar pills. It was a continuous packet. So you'd skip but then they were like won't women find this weird.... or think they're maybe pregnant, etc... So they changed it.


Yes. Last time Peter got sick from a night of drinking, he threw up and I had 2 panic attacks.

Last time he drank, wasn't sick, I had a panic attack, because of flashbacks to that throwing up night. =/ not fun.

I haven't had one since oh... september last year? xD

That's how much it affects me mentally...



Now that's weird... kinda glad I haven't squirted before then.



I couldn't for a while. But then found having sex 48hrs beforehand helped.. But I still needed a smaller speculum thing. You know the duckbill?

pretty sure the test here doesn't get everything either.

But I heard they might do different testing?

I had the shot too.

Okay, okay, catching up, catching up.... uuuuuhhh

@Poshi: It may be the size difference between you and your partner. My bf is a whole lot taller than me, so it's common for me to be all willing and wanting and his entering still hurts no matter how horny I am... Unless I'm on my fertile days, tho it can hurt then still. It may be your partner's member shape or maybe his size is just too big?
Or, on extreme case, maybe it's vaginismus (aka vaginism)? I'm not entirely sure how it works, but it's mainly a mental block women get for various cases. Like used to be raped/molested or lived in condemnation of sexuality all her life... and since you mentioned your family is very conservative plus you feel discomfort very easily, I'd bet on a terrible mental block. So maybe visit a sexologist?

About orgasms tho, can't you come from at least clitoral stimulation? Or mouth action? These are pretty strong, I can recommend

@River: Haha, foot cramps while on top, we all get that I guess Positioning your feet on flex helps most of the times and don't switch even if it hurts, you'll get your cramp for sure then. How many orgasms I've ruined for myself only because I switched my feet to relaxed position and got cramps instantaneously. -.-

Haha, sometimes I get too tired moving and he laughs at my bad stamina XD Oh well, it's hard ;>>