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Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 19:31
by Natsuyuki
I mostly went to the ones that are basically school hours? So you go home in the afternoon. They were largely boring ):
There was this one overnight camp I went to that in hindsight was really... Weird...
It was a church-run camp and I remember the counselor confiscating the Harry Potter novel I brought with me to read because they were "bad" /D;;;
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 19:54
by Amura
Because magic is a profanity? ò_ó
Oh, well, I've just had one of those conversations with my son which feel like something HUGE.
We agreed to start giving him an allowance

Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 20:39
by Natsuyuki
Idk they just told me magic and religion don't mix /D;;; I was too little to really argue or understand.
Oooo!!! That is big indeed!!! He must be excited! :D how much are you guys giving him?
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 20:58
by Amura
Not much, because he's only 7 and he does not go out with friends or anything like that. So we agreed on 2 euros a week.
The discussion started on Monday, cause he wanted a plushie that was for sale in the supermarket (spend a certain amount in groceries + add some cash) and I suggested he did his chores in the house for a pay.
But in the end he decided he's not gonna buy the plushie; he's gonna save it for something he might want more in the future.
I suppose he has not thought of Pokemon cards yet, but once he notice I'm sure most of the money will be spent on those

Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 21:11
by Natsuyuki
That's a good amount to start with! He can now slowly learn to balance between getting small things or saving up for bigger things eh
I remember when I was little, every Chinese new years I'd get red packets from relatives, and my parents let me decide what to do with the money, so I saved up for some years and was able to spend it on a family trip. It felt really good back then and was quite formative!
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 21:20
by Amura
My son seems to be quite good at saving. At least so far.
He also got some money in Christmas and so, saved it up for a while, and then he decided to pay for our gerbils tank.
I think it's a good balance: learning to save up is great, learning to spend properly is even better.
I hope that now that he's gonna have an steady income he'll keep doing the same. We'll see.
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 19th, '22, 23:34
by Natsuyuki
Hopefully he'll keep building the good habit! :D
I just came back from driving practice, my hands are shaky lol... Test is tmr QAQ
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 20th, '22, 08:23
by Amura
I wish you the best of luck!

Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 21st, '22, 00:37
by Natsuyuki
Thank you!! Your well wishes didn't go to waste! :DDD
How're you doing btw? :O hopefully you're able to get lots of rest!
Re: [ A house on a tree ]
Posted: Jun 21st, '22, 07:36
by Amura
I must go to work v_v
Unfortunately they don't give you days off for covid anymore, unless you are feeling quite unwell. And I'm not that bad - so some paracetamol and there I go.
Having breakfast in this very moment.
I also have some final exams, I'd rather make the effort and be there.