Reht wrote:@strawblairery:

Ah, that sounds great c:
Hope everything goes well for you there C:
Budgeting and expenses seem scary at first, but they're really not so bad as long as you're smart about it - always keep in mind what money you have and what portion of it needs to be put aside for important things asnd you should be fine c:
(the main thing is just not to bury your head in the sand and 'ignore' bills or rack up credit card debts P: )

Anda, if you're interested in postsecret here's a link - it updates with new postcards every sunday c:

I'm still here, unfortunately, I have to wait for a month for the whole processing of my application before they could call me if I'm up for the job or I failed. I'm getting a little anxious as days pass. maybe I could move away from this town or maybe another year. I'm not so sure now.

I have estimated all the possible expenses I may have if I ever end up in that firm since it's been 2 weeks since my final interview and I have not much to do at home.

I keep myself busy to not feel so worthless for being jobless since I couldn't get any part time jobs at this moment *its complicated

oh and those Post secrets, seems amazing. I wish I can participate in that too.

the Post Secrets site is fascinating!

I wonder how many are real and how many are fabricated by people who fantasize about doing the thing they're talking about?

@Akili Li

I was wondering the same thing about those post. I find some post really amusing to read. wished I could participate in that too.

I've always wondered what it would be like to just zoom out of my current life and go somewhere else to start a new life. You know, take up a new name, a new background (if possible), the works. It's not going to be easy, given all the technology of today, but I have to say, it's pretty tempting, even now.

CycloneKira wrote:I've always wondered what it would be like to just zoom out of my current life and go somewhere else to start a new life. You know, take up a new name, a new background (if possible), the works. It's not going to be easy, given all the technology of today, but I have to say, it's pretty tempting, even now.

IKR. I've been avoiding facebook recently cause I need space and privacy from my nosy relatives who have taken they nosiness to the next level. I mean, do I really have to report everything related to my career plans or current work? then what? youre gonna tell everyone we know about it. It's choking me. why couldn't they just stalk me in secret? haha. so crazy.

oh, yeah, I have wondered about that too, but not that far to the point I have to change names and pretty much everything about me. I'm thinking of like, moving somewhere a few miles from people I find annoying or somewhere with a nice view outside and with spacious yard where I could get my green thumbs to work on it but not that far from neighbors..

Akili Li wrote:I used to critique teasing and bullying... it got so the kids would come up and say something just to hear what I'd return, which was annoying, so then I started lecturing them instead on basic creativity and research and they're certainly old enough to uncover the better insults themselves, expecting me to do their work for them was just laziness on their part...

I didn't really have peer-aged friends, lol. But I was such a boring enemy that I didn't really have enemies either.

But that technique was only eventually developed because we moved a fair bit when I was a kid, and that gave me chance after chance at trying new techniques out.

Which was, yes, helpful.

I don't have peer-aged friends on this neighborhood either, even though most of them were close (and far) blood relatives of mine. I used to be close to them as kids but it just has come to a point that we have gone on our own separate lives even though we only live few blocks apart or just beside our home.

We have our own separate cliques, schools plus I became I homebody and only goes out with my friends at school on my pre-teens and teenage years. I was also, a bit of an introvert on my teenage years.

I can't say, I have experimented with the way I confront or approached people on here, but I have learned to keep distance or minimize my interaction with toxic ones in here.

Moi wrote:

I think it's necessary for some people.
I've had family that were into bad things and they changed.
They had to cut ties with old "friends" and had to leave town and even the state.
They're still doing good too.

light_sucks wrote:For some people it's really a necessity.

It was for me. I had to get away from my mom. It's been about 5 years and I've finally started to blossom. It's great.

If it wasn't for financial concerns, moving far from this countryside wouldn't be a necessity. nosy people can still be bearable as long as I don't interact on toxic and chatterbox in here , oh, and that also includes keeping them out even on my social media's haha

well, I hope that moving from another place would do good to me too,