Lliikkiittaa wrote:I really do not like Christmas time. It seems oblied times to be happy. And happiness comes only for shopping and shopping.
I think this is something that depends on perspective. Just because there is a day that has been corporately and culturally designated for gift-giving doesn't mean that it's necessarily forced or fake. That would be the same as feeling obliged to give a friend a gift because it's their birthday (which I don't necessarily prescribe to.)
For me (and for this year especially), I think of Christmas as an opportunity to thank, acknowledge, and show care to those around me. I think it's sometimes easy to forget about others and just how much they mean to us; we can get used to their company, and our "thank yous" may become something of an automatic habit.
Therefore having to take time out of my life, to think carefully of my friends and individuals with individual tastes, and think of the good things they've done for me is very important to me. The act of gift giving is itself worth it to me, and I'm thankful that I was able to have enough money to set aside to do it, and have the opportunity to show my friends that they have someone who cares for them this season.
It doesn't even have to be bought gifts; I'm just as happy making small gifts for others as well. This year it seems like I'm doing half and half, aha.