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My dad told me he wants us to throw a party when he dies.
Dad: I don't want anyone crying! You had all better laugh and throw a party when I die >8u  43%  [ 20 ]
Me: Oh, trust me. We will. <<  57%  [ 27 ]
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 Post subject: Re: Sorry For Your Loss
Posted: Sep 19th, '17, 07:48    


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Oh definitely. 27 here, high school is when I lost the most.

Sophomore year, my grandparents were murdered
8 months later my best friend hung himself
5 months later a long time friend died in a car accident in front of me [and our entire school bus that he was supposed to be on that day]
1 year and 1 month later a friend that helped me through those deaths also died in a car accident
1 year and some months later my step-grandmother, the only paternal grandparent I ever new, died and we weren't told about it. Found out on FB
That same year a friend I met freshman year killed herself after coming home from a trip to Greece
Two years later another friend killed himself, leaving a wife and kid behind

And in the years since then, I've lost two beloved cats, and helped my sister and step-daughter get through the loss of their own friends. My husband, bless his heart, is one such person you mentioned that has NEVER dealt with suicide, or death as a young person. He's 44 now, and was at a loss of what to do to help our daughter.

He doesn't say it often, because it is kind of a morbid sentiment, but it's one I share with him: We're grateful that I have the experience I do in death, because I was able to help her. And my kid-sister, too, they're both lost about what to do and how to heal.

I was quite taken aback when my husband said he had NEVER had anyone die like that; Suicide, or even just young. I couldn't fathom how that wasn't... NORMAL.

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 Post subject: Re: Sorry For Your Loss
Posted: Oct 1st, '17, 21:38    


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It's really sad when people die, especially if you're not used to it.

I sometimes wonder if there really is something awesome after we die.
Maybe being scared and sad is a waste of time because it'll be great.

October 16th will be the anniversary of when my grandpa died.
It's literally the day after my birthday xD

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A world of fragile things
Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
I know you hear me,
I can taste it in your tears."



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