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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 12:38    


jacobgrey

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We can snap at each other fairly often, but carry on with life lol. When we do have arguments they can last a while because I very much want to confront the issue and sort it out while J's impulse is to walk away and calm down. So I get mad about him walking away and he gets mad about me pushing the issue and then we are more mad about that then what we were mad about in the first place. Quite often I end up finding an excuse to go where he is so I can snap at him some more to give him an excuse to start a conversation so we can get over it ^^;

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 13:07    


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Goose and I are similar to jacob and J. I'm all about confronting the issue and sorting it out quick and I pester him about it, but he likes to think about it and stay mad for longer. I want to resolve it so he'll love me back faster ;-; hurry hurry.

I'd be really mad if Goose pulled an impassive fish on me. He hates it when I sulk though.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 13:21    


jacobgrey

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Haha I guess I am the same underneath, didn't think of it that way. I want him to stop being mad and love me again XD

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 14:53    


Chrizine

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Fascinating, we are the same :D
He needs time to cool down, I need to discuss things to resolve the argument.
We have gotten way better at dealing with it since we figured that out though.
I now know that he isn't just sulking to make a point when he goes away, so I'm more patient (whereas before that would make me even more mad). And he knows that he can't just hole up in his room for hours and expect everything to be fine when he comes out, but rather he can go for a bit but has to come back and face me to resolve the issue.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 17:24    


jacobgrey

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I guess it's a common thing! Maybe to do with societal views?We're more willing to talk about our emotions, whereas guys are taught to keep it quiet until it goes away?

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 17:56    


Chrizine

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Yeah, maybe it does have something to do with that!

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 14th, '17, 21:48    


memoriam

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Sounds logical now that I thin about it, 'cause for us it's the same XD

The worst thing with Ash is, even if we resolve the issue, his bad mood stays for longer. So no matter what happens, he's kind of distant for a while. I learend to let him cool off, give him some alone time. It still hurts though, I'm able to forgive very quickly and I can't quite grasp how he isn't ^^;
As you all said, I just want him to love me again xD

Gosh, I'm so clingy :mcblush:

@Poshi: Lol, thanks, mission accomplished twice :mccool:

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 15th, '17, 11:43    


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It's not clingy if we're all the same way ^^

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 15th, '17, 16:15    


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Firn no need to excuse for not releasing so often as you wish new updates.
I really appreciate all your continuos effort.
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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Jul 15th, '17, 19:31    


memoriam

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@jacob: lol, maybe, but I always think I'm clingy and he thinks so too XD



I absolutely agree with @Lliikkiittaa, the effort remains effort and some things are out of your control. We'll remain patient :mchappy: (I see some prayers from the suggestion thread have been heard :mcsquee: )

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May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...
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