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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 9th, '19, 03:48    


Kitalpha Hart

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I don't smile
I smirk

So
Uh
Oops?

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 11th, '19, 03:13    


Moi

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You have hugged Moi!


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Smirking is cool 8u

That's how it is for me. People say something bad about me, and I start thinking "Maybe they're right..."
I've done it when it came to people treating me badly.
Like maybe I deserved it or it was my fault for not defending myself.

I'm really sorry ;~;
I know my dad recently found out he has Diabetes and the foods on his no-no list were things he always eats and drinks.
We're going to have trouble when he gets home.

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 13th, '19, 02:02    


light_sucks

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Sorry I haven't been on. My mother in law was really sick and then she died. We've been really busy mourning and planning funeral stuff.

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 13th, '19, 20:32    


Moi

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I saw that, Light.
I'm really sorry ;;

Is everything working out right? I know Silent was having issues with her mom and funeral expenses and stuff ;~;

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 07:35    


light_sucks

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Shit super sucks homie.

She didn't have any sort of will, no life insurance. Thank fucking gods that her parents and brother were well off enough to pay for the funeral.

We're now trying to get her house so we can live in it. But there's so many things involved with that. We have to get a loan and now we have her dog. We have to clean our house AND her house. Gotta get rid of all her shit. She was a bit of a hoarder. Thankfully her mom threw out a bunch of crap before she died.

Everything is super up in the air at the moment. If I had disability or something coming in then it wouldn't be so stressful but I haven't got it yet.

My suggestion to everyone is that you write a fucking will. And make sure people know what you want to go down at your funeral, write that shit down too. Because it is crazy difficult to make those decisions when you're in mourning.

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 08:34    


Kitalpha Hart

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Yeah, before grandma died she filled banker boxes with things for her kids and grandkids
Told mom to stop by and pick up certain things so another kid, who would just trash said things, couldn't get them
Had a pile of "pick and choose" for everyone to grab from as well, I got a couple things from it
But the majority of what'll happen will be after grandpa dies, I think they made a joint will or some such

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 09:09    


light_sucks

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I'm just glad no one is fighting over the stuff. She didn't really have much. The only thing that was worth a larger amount of money is the house.

Thankfully Kevin's brother just bought another house. So he said we could have it. No fight there.

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 09:13    


Kitalpha Hart

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Always a relief when something like that doesn't end up being a sore spot

Grandpa's house is, but not because sibling feuds
He and grandma want it sold off after both die and several family members want it to stay within the family

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 09:34    


light_sucks

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So true.

Oh man, I really hope that they've written their wills then. Otherwise there is going to be some serious fighting over all that.

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 Post subject: Re: Debralynn's Hangout ^.^ Come chat with me!
Posted: May 16th, '19, 20:57    


Moi

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I'm really sorry you're having such a hard time ;;
I don't know why they won't let you have Disability.
You seem to be in pain all the time and have issues with a lot of things o_O
I have another friend that had to go to court over hers and she was really sick all the time.
People are so stupid =_=

My grandpa was already taken care of when he died. We think he knew he was going to die, so he started doing stuff way before then.
Which is good, but also really fucking sad.
Knowing he would die and not telling us and having to live the rest of his days knowing he was going to die and hoping we'd be taken care of xD

Wills are very important. You can have people fighting over shit if it's in the will.
My grandpa left his house to my mom, my aunt, and my uncle.
But my aunt seems to think it's completely HER house. Which it's NOT.
And she makes sure to tell us it's HER house and talk down to us.
She can't do shit with anything because it's only PARTLY HER house >__>

I told Aki that if I die before her, she can get all my stuff on all my accounts and give it out to friends.
That's kind of sad, but I really don't own much stuff offline.
My mom and sister would get all my stuff like my computer and tv and tons of manga and anime and junk.

When my grandpa died, my mom and aunt were giving and selling his stuff to people.
I knew they had to, but it broke my heart because it was HIS stuff.
I got to keep his work uniform he always wore and his jacket.
And of course, we got his lawn mowers and household stuff.


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Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
I know you hear me,
I can taste it in your tears."



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